Dulu Boleh.. Sekarang?

Pejam celik, pejam celik, tinggal hanya beberapa hari sahaja untuk kita melangkah ke bulan April 2012. Cepat betul masa berlalu. Kadang-kadang hampir terlupa umur pun dah 32 tahun!! Hehe.. rasa macam baru je lagi berkonvoi naik motosikal ke sekolah untuk ambil keputusan SPM.

Bila cerita pasal SPM, baru-baru ni keputusan SPM 2011 dah dikeluarkan. Alhamdulillah ramai yang dapat keputusan cemerlang. Tahniah adik-adik sekelian!! Harap ianya akan menjadi pemangkin untuk terus menuntut ilmu, demi mengejar impian masing-masing. Tapi jangan lupa, keputusan yang bagus hari ini bukan penentu kehidupan anda nanti. Yang penting adalah TERUS BERUSAHA.

Imbas kembali kisah tahun 1998, ketika mengambil keputusan SPM. Memang rasa sangat-sangat bersyukur dengan keputusan yang saya dapat ketika itu. Kalau diikutkan, saya bukanlah dari kalangan pelajar yang pintar, masuk sekolah semasa tingkatan satu pun kelas last sekali tau (siapa yang satu sekolah tahu lah kelas apakah itu, hehe..). Dah la kelas kategori last, tempat pun betul-betul hujung bangunan pulak tu!! Memang banyak memori kat sana. Kalau dapat berkumpul semula dengan kawan-kawan sekolah, memang sampai pagi tak habis cerita!!

Kenangan bersama rakan-rakan semasa PREP di SMKASL, terselit di belakang Opie (kiri sekali), hehe..

Dipendekkan cerita, semasa PMR (1995) pun keputusan tak berapa bagus. Dapat 5A3B1C je. Apa yang C tu? Hehe.. biarlah sendiri yang tahu. Ramai lah kawan-kawan yang dapat keputusan yang bagus berhijrah ke sekolah lain. Ada yang ke MRSM, Kolej Islam Klang dan macam-macam sekolah yang lebih bagus. Tinggal la segelintir kami menyambung perjuangan di SMKASL. Bila nak masuk tingkatan 4 satu hal pula lagi, tak tahu nak masuk kelas apa. Nak masuk kelas Sains tak layak, kelas Ekonomi kena belajar Bahasa Arab Komunikasi pulak, takkan nak masuk kelas Sastera kot!! Hanya ada satu pilihan, kelas Prinsip Akaun. Hehe.. menjadikan kelas yang teramai pelajar diantara empat kelas yang ada. Tapi masalahnya susah pulak nak faham Prinsip Akaun nih, kena belajar Add Math sekali pulak tu. Aduhh.. macam mana ni.

Masa tu keputusan exam penggal so-so je. Paling best sekali masa awal tingkatan 5, siap dapat SAP lah!! Nahh.. penangan baik punya. Sendiri mau ingat lah, lepas tu kena 'basuh' dengan cikgu-cikgu dan kena hantar ke kursus motivasi. Setelah mendapat 'suntikan' dari berbagai pihak, saya cuba yang terbaik semasa percubaan SPM. Siap bertapa dalam kelas sorang-sorang, struggle study tak nak orang ganggu punya pasal. Alhamdulillah dapat pangkat satu walaupun dah hujung-hujung agregat. Hmm.. boleh jugak rupanya ye.

Then masa SPM 1997 saya cuba yang terbaik. Abah siap janji nak belikan motosikal kalau dapat keputusan yang bagus. Dengan berbekalkan semangat dari abah, mak dan para guru, saya berusaha study betul-betul, banyakkan berdoa dan bertawakal. Alhamdulillah dapat pangkat satu dengan 13 agregat!! Macam tak percaya, 5-6 kali tenung slip keputusan tu. Mungkin taklah hebat mana, tapi bagi saya, ianya antara pencapaian terbaik pernah saya buat.

Itu 15 tahun yang lepas. Bila difikir-fikir semula, kalau dulu saya boleh lakukan sesuatu yang payah, kenapa sekarang tak boleh? Sekarang saya berjuang untuk kehidupan saya dan keluarga, untuk mendapatkan kebebasan kewangan, supaya satu hari saya ada masa yang berkualiti bersama famili dan mampu untuk berbuat amal kebajikan. Sebenarnya sama je, kalau dulu saya berjuang untuk berjaya dalam peperiksaan, sekarang berjuang untuk kehidupan. So, apa alasan saya untuk tidak berjaya? Dulu boleh kenapa sekarang tak boleh?

Kita semua adalah JUARA!! Kalau tak, mana mungkin kita berada di atas muka bumi ini. Yang penting, jika ada impian, kejar dan berusaha sebelum terlambat. Jangan sampai satu hari nanti apabila kita dah tua baru tersedar - kenapalah aku tak berusaha dulu? Sesal dahulu pendapatan, sesal kemudian tak berguna. Tu untung kalau tua, kalau tak sempat tua? So, manfaatkan lah masa yang ada kerana masa takkan berulang kembali..

p/s: memori SMKASL memang takkan dilupakan selamanya

Make Your Team More Creative!

In today’s challenging economic times, creative thinking is more valuable than ever. Not creative for creativity’s sake - creativity to solve real business problems. Many of the ideas of the past are no longer relevant. As a seasoned leader shared with me recently, “The half-life of ideas is decreasing rapidly.” 

So what’s our response? We need more and better ideas. The good news: creating new, value-added ideas is what teams do best. However, creativity in a team environment is not automatic. There are some things that leaders can do to increase the creative output of their team. Here are a few ideas to get you started . . .

Expect it

When you establish the role of your team, be sure to highlight the expectation that the team will create fresh, new solutions to the problems you face.




Train it

The skills of creativity can be learned. To learn them, they must be taught. Schedule time to conduct training for your team. This can take many forms. It can be as brief as a micro session on effective brainstorming (before your next brainstorming session) to multi-day training sessions and everything in between. The point is simple - train your team on the skills of creativity.




Practice it

Creative thinking and problem solving are skills - just like golf, tennis or a foreign language. Like any skill, you get better with practice. Look for opportunities for your team to practice the skills you’ve learned. Practice builds competence and competence builds confidence.

Recognize it

The actions that you reward will be repeated. That’s human nature. That’s one reason you need to recognize not just the successes but the effort as well. Not every creative endeavor will be successful. That’s normal. If you’ve been operating in a culture in which creativity has not been valued, recognizing creative effort will be even more critical. People are paying attention. They want to know if it’s really safe to voice new ideas.




Model it

People always watch the leader - whether we want them to or not. Do your people see you embracing creative ideas? Do they see you engaged in the process of creating new ideas? You can accelerate the adoption of creative thinking as a skill if you personally get in the game. If you don’t, you’ll need to temper your expectations of groundbreaking new ideas from your team.

Teams are probably at their best when they’re engaged in the creative process. They are leveraging their collective wisdom and experience to create what previously did not exist. One of the most satisfying and productive things leaders can do is create the conditions to harness this creative potential. Start today and get ready to be amazed at what your team will do!

Sumber :  Great Leaders Grow - Becoming a Leader for Life

Charity Day 19/02/2012

Syukur alhamdulillah.. Apa yang dirancang bersama rakan-rakan telah berjaya dilaksanakan. Syabas rakan-rakan yang HEBAT kerana membantu kami melaksanakannya. Juga ribuan terima kasih yang tak terhingga kepada para DERMAWAN yang bermurah hati memberi sumbangan. Bagi saya ianya bukanlah sekadar sumbangan tapi adalah BEKALAN AKHIRAT!!

Program bermula pada jam 12 tengahari. Kami berkumpul di Bintang Sidewalk Cafe, Seksyen 7, Shah Alam. Walaupun dalam cuaca yang panas terik, ramai rakan-rakan yang hadir untuk memberi sokongan. Ada juga yang datang memberi sumbangan (terima kasih 2 orang rakan perempuanku yang datang semata-mata nak bagi sumbangan!!).

Syahril (2 dari kanan) tersengih gembira dapat join sekali, kalau tak sebelum ni sibuk bekerja je

Siti (3 dari kanan) yang sentiasa bertenaga ke sana sini

Inilah antara yang hadir 'lunch' sekali, belakang saya tu mr sifu Sim (bukan nama sebenar) yang banyak mengajar erti kehidupan

Selesai lunch, kami solat Zuhur bersama-sama di surau berdekatan. Ada juga yang tiba di saat-saat akhir (memang betul punya sudden death ni). Sebelum bergerak ke lokasi, sempat la bergambar sebagai kenang-kenangan.

Sebahagian dari sumbangan barang makanan dari rakan-rakan, TQ Ms P!

Azwan (Pegawai JPS) yang tak pernah kering gusi cuba membuat gangguan pada Tun (Pegawai JPJ)

Alhamdulillah lebih 60 orang dapat kami kumpulkan pada hari ini

Alhamdulillah kurang dari setengah jam kami berkonvoi, kami tiba di lokasi. Ada juga yang terlepas sampai ke Setia Alam!! Hehe.. apa nak buat dah ramai-ramai mesti ada yang tercicir punya. Tapi yang bagusnya, walaupun tak pernah sampai Klang (yang sesat tu asal dari Kelantan), dia usaha juga dan berjaya sampai ke lokasi!

Sebahagian dari 25 buah kereta yang menyertai konvoi, menunggu sebahagian lagi rakan-rakan di Jalan Hj Musran, Kg Rantau Panjang, Klang

Setelah siap meletakkan kenderaan masing-masing, kami pun berjalan ke MADRASAH 'ULUMULQURAN WAL AHADITH. Agak terharu apabila kehadiran kami disambut oleh sebahagian pelajar yang 'jaga trafik' dan sebahagian lagi berbaris menanti kehadiran kami.

Sebahagian pelajar yang menanti kehadiran kami, rasa sangat TERHARU!!

Menerima sambutan yang sangat MERIAH dari pihak madrasah!!

Selesai sesi bersalaman dan berkenalan, kami dijemput ke surau madrasah (yang dibina dari gabungan 4 buah kabin sumbangan orang ramai). Saudara Amran (wakil madrasah) memberikan sedikit penerangan mengenai madrasah dan berkongsi ilmu dengan kami. Apa yang menariknya, di sini kami dapat mengetahui yang madrasah ini ditubuhkan dan dibina atas dasar KERJASAMA demi KEBAJIKAN untuk AGAMA, bukanlah untuk keuntungan sebagaimana yang kita dengar selama ini. MasyaAllah, sangat mulia usaha mereka. 

Saudara Zack juga telah menyampaikan sedikit ucapan bagi pihak kami yang hadir. Selepas itu, kami menyampaikan sumbangan dari rakan-rakan yang telah berjaya kami kumpulkan. Alhamdulillah.. amanah kalian (para dermawan) dapat kami sempurnakan.

Saudara Amran, antara tulang belakang madrasah ini. Disebelahnya (berkopiah putih) adalah Roslan, rakan saya di tempat kerja dahulu

Zack, dahulunya hanya seorang technician, tapi kini mempunyai kehidupan yang lebih bermakna, memberikan sedikit ucapan bagi pihak kami

Walau tak banyak mana yang mampu kami kumpulkan, diharap sedikit sebanyak dapat membantu pihak madrasah

Sementara menanti waktu Asar, kami meluangkan masa melawat sekitar kawasan madrasah dan beramah mesra bersama para pelajar. Dari apa yang kami faham, kawasan ini adalah kawasan pembangunan Islam satu ketika dahulu, dan kini mereka hendak mengembalikan semula zaman kegemilangan dahulu.

Masih banyak bantuan yang diperlukan oleh pihak madrasah. Semoga ada pihak lain yang akan juga memberikan bantuan kepada mereka.

Abg Akasha bersama para pelajar

Inilah tempat penginapan untuk 40 orang pelajar. Segala katil dan locker adalah sumbangan orang ramai.

Hanya ini yang ada untuk para pelajar mandi dan membersihkan diri. Insyaallah pasti ada pihak yang akan membantu untuk menyediakan kemudahan yang lebih selesa untuk mereka.

Selesai solat Asar berjemaah, kami meluangkan masa bersama-sama untuk sesi minum petang. Sebenarnya kami dah merancang untuk minum petang di tempat lain kerana tak mahu menyusahkan pihak madrasah, tapi Allah dah tentukan rezeki kami di sini, Alhamdulillah. Bagi saya ini adalah minum petang yang sangat berbaloi kerana kami bukan sekadar minum tapi turut mendapat perkongsian ilmu dari salah seorang rakan kami, Ustaz Hafiszi.

Ustaz Hafiszi, seorang guru dan usahawan yang juga memiliki sebuah francais Genuis Aulad

Inilah tempat beriadah para pelajar memandangkan tiada padang di kawasan ini

Antara yang dapat dikongsi oleh Ustaz Hafiszi adalah ;

1. Berjaya dalam hidup bukanlah pilihan tapi adalah KEMESTIAN kepada semua orang

2. Sebagai umat Islam, kita sangat dituntut untuk mencari KEKAYAAN sebanyak mungkin kerana dari situ kita dapat bantu AGAMA.

3. Jangan hanya MENUNGGU dan mengharapkan BANTUAN sahaja dari pihak-pihak tertentu.

Sebelum berpisah, sempat juga kami bergambar bersama-sama para pelajar, tenaga pengajar dan AJK madrasah. Seakan berat kaki untuk meninggalkan madrasah ketika itu. Harapan kami agar lebih ramai lagi yang akan hadir untuk memberi bantuan dan sumbangan kepada mereka ini, yang berjuang untuk kebajikan, di atas nama Allah.

Sesungguhnya program ini telah membuka minda kami yang selama ini terlalu sibuk dengan tugas harian, hingga lupa tanggungjawab sebagai seorang KHALIFAH di muka bumi ini. Bak kata Ustaz Hafiszi, membantu agama adalah KEWAJIPAN kita semua. 

Terlalu banyak perkara yang saya pelajari. Tapi apa yang paling berharga, program ini berjaya menggabung 3 perkara yang kita akan bawa selepas mati nanti - doa anak yang soleh, ilmu yang bermanfaat dan sedekah amal jariah. Apapun, saya berharap ini adalah titik permulaan kepada saya, juga kepada kita semua, untuk sentiasa berbakti kepada masyarakat.

Bagi yang berminat untuk membuat sumbangan jariah, boleh hubungi Saudara Roslan (016-2446567) atau salurkan terus sumbangan anda ke akaun ;

MADRASAH 'ULUMULQURAN WAL AHADITH

MAYBANK 562469308464

 NO.1667 LORONG HJ NAKMAN KADIS

JALAN HAJI MUSRAN

KG RANTAU PANJANG

41200 KLANG

SELANGOR DARUL EHSAN

Semoga satu hari nanti saya akan menjadi JUTAWAN yang DERMAWAN dan BERIMAN!! 

InsyaAllah amin..

10 Things That Smart People Forget

Some of the smartest people continuously struggle to get ahead because they forget to address a few simple truths that collectively govern our potential to make progress.  So here’s a quick reminder:

#1 – Education and intelligence accomplish nothing without action.

 

It doesn’t matter if you have a genius IQ and a PhD in Quantum Physics, you can’t change anything or make any sort of real-world progress without taking action.  There’s a huge difference between knowing how to do something and actually doing it.  Knowledge and intelligence are both useless without ACTION.  It’s as simple as that.

#2 – Happiness and success are two different things.

 

I know an extremely savvy businesswoman who made almost a million dollars online last year. Every entrepreneur I know considers her to be wildly successful.  But guess what?  A few days ago, out of the blue, she told me that she’s depressed.  Why?  “I’m burnt out and lonely.  I just haven’t taken enough time for myself lately,” she said.  “Wow!” I thought.  “One of the most successful people I know isn’t happy.”

I also know a surfer who surfs almost all day, every day on the beach in front of our condo complex in San Diego.  He’s one of the most lighthearted, optimistic guys I’ve ever met – always smiling from ear to ear.  But he sleeps in a van he co-owns with another surfer and they both frequently panhandle tourists for money.  So while I can’t deny that this man seems happy, I wouldn’t classify his life as a success story.

“What will make me happy?” and “What will make me successful?” are two of the most important questions you can ask yourself.  But they are two different questions.

#3 – Everyone runs their own business.

 

No matter how you make a living or who you think you work for, you only work for one person, YOURSELF.  The big question is:  What are you selling, and to whom?  Even when you have a full-time, salaried, ‘Corporate America’ position, you are still running your own business.  You are selling one unit of your existence (an hour of your life) at a set price (the associated fraction of your salary) to a customer (your employer).

So how can you simultaneously save your time and increase your profit?  The answer is slightly different for everyone.  But it’s an answer you should be seeking.

#4 – Having too many choices interferes with decision making.

 

Here in the 21st century where information moves at the speed of light and opportunities for innovation seem endless, we have an abundant array of choices when it comes to designing our lives and careers.  But sadly, an abundance of choice often leads to indecision, confusion and inaction.

Several business and marketing studies have shown that the more product choices a consumer is faced with, the less products they typically buy.  After all, narrowing down the best product from a pool of three choices is certainly a lot easier than narrowing down the best product from a pool of three hundred choices.  If the purchasing decision is tough to make, most people will just give up.

So if you’re selling a product line, keep it simple.  And if you’re trying to make a decision about something in your life, don’t waste all your time evaluating every last detail of every possible option.  CHOOSE something that you think will work and give it a SHOT!  If it doesn’t work out, choose something else and keep pressing forward.

#5 – All people possess dimensions of success and dimensions of failure.

 

This point is somewhat related to point #2 on happiness and success, but it stands strong on its own as well…

Trying to be perfect is a waste of time and energy.  Perfection is an illusion. All people, even our idols, are multidimensional.  Powerful business men, polished musicians, bestselling authors, and even our own parents all have dimensions of success and dimensions of failure present in their lives.

Our successful dimensions usually encompass the things we spend the most time doing.  We are successful in these dimensions because of our prolonged commitment to them.  This is the part of our lives we want others to see – the successful part that holds our life’s work.  It’s the notion of putting our best foot forward.  It’s the public persona we envision as our personal legacy:  “The Successful ABC” or “The Award Winning XYZ.”

But behind whichever polished storyline we publically promote, there lies a multi-dimensional human being with a long list of unprofessed failures.  Sometimes this person is a bad husband or wife.  Sometimes this person laughs at the expense of others.  And sometimes this person merely takes their eyes off the road and rear-ends the car in front of them.

#6 – Every mistake you make is progress.

 

Mistakes teach you important lessons.  Every time you make one, you’re one step closer to your goal.  The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing TO DO NOTHING simply because you’re TOO SCARED to make a mistake.

So don’t hesitate – don’t doubt yourself.  In life, it’s rarely about getting a chance; it’s about taking a chance.  You’ll never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work.  Most of the time you just have to go for it!

And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should be.  Either you succeed or you learn something.  Win-Win.  Remember, if you NEVER act, you will never know for sure, and you will be left standing in the same spot FOREVER.

#7 – People can be great at doing things they don’t like to do.

 

Although I’m not suggesting that you choose a career or trade you dislike, I’ve heard way too many smart people say something like, “In order to be great at what you do, you have to like what you do.”  This just isn’t true.

A good friend of mine is a public accountant.  He has told me on numerous occasions that he dislikes his job – “that it bores him to death.”  But he frequently gets raises and promotions.  At the age of 28, out of nearly a thousand Jr. Accountants in his division, he’s one of only two who were promoted to be Sr. Accountants this past year.  Why?  Because even though he doesn’t like doing it, he’s good at what he does.

I could come up with dozens of other examples just like this, but I’ll spare you the details.  Just realize that if someone dedicates enough time and attention to perfecting a skill or trade, they can be insanely good at doing something they don’t like to do.

#8 – The problems we have with others are typically more about us.

 

Quite often, the problems we have with others – our spouse, parents, siblings, etc. – don’t really have much to do with them at all.  Because many of the problems we think we have with them we subconsciously created in our own mind.  Maybe they did something in the past that touched on one of our fears or insecurities.  Or maybe they didn’t do something that we expected them to do.  In either case, problems like these are not about the other person, they’re about us.

And that’s okay.  It simply means these little predicaments will be easier to solve.   We are, after all, in charge of our own decisions.  We get to decide whether we want to keep our head cluttered with events from the past, or instead open our minds to the positive realities unfolding in front of us.

All we need is the willingness to look at things a little differently – letting go of ‘what was’ and ‘what should have been,’ and instead focusing our energy on ‘what is’ and ‘what could be possible.’

#9 – Emotional decisions are rarely good decisions.

 

Decisions driven by heavy emotion are typically misguided reactions rather than educated judgments.  These reactions are the byproduct of minimal amounts of conscious thought and primarily based on momentary ‘feelings’ instead of mindful awareness.

The best advice here is simple:  Don’t let your EMOTIONS trump your intelligence.  Slow down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.

#10 – You will never feel 100% ready when an opportunity arises.

 

The number one thing I persistently see holding smart people back is their own reluctance to accept an opportunity simply because they don’t think they’re ready.  In other words, they believe they require additional knowledge, skill, experience, etc. before they can aptly partake in the opportunity.  Sadly, this is the kind of thinking that stifles personal growth.

The truth is NOBODY ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow emotionally and intellectually.  They force us to stretch ourselves and our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.  And when we don’t feel comfortable, we don’t feel ready.

Just remember that significant moments of opportunity for personal growth and development will come and go throughout your lifetime.  If you are looking to make positive changes in your life you will need to EMBRACE these moments of opportunity even though you will never feel 100% ready for them!

So, what are you waiting for??

Sumber :  Marc and Angel Hack Life

It's My Life!

Woww.. Lama betul tak 'membloggingkan diri'! Hajat di hati nak buat hari-hari, tapi tak berkesempatan. Banyak perkara yang perlu didahulukan, FIRST THING FIRST!! Betul kan?

Mungkin kadangkala dalam masa kita sibuk mengejar matlamat dan impian, ada beberapa perkara yang kita terpaksa ketepikan seketika. SEKETIKA bukan ertinya untuk selama-lamanya. Tapi yang WAJIB janganlah ketepikan pula. Apa yang penting, kita tahu dan yakin dengan apa yang kita lakukan kerana ini adalah KEHIDUPAN KITA, hanya kita yang mampu MENCORAKKANNYA, adakah untuk ada sebuah kehidupan yang INDAH suatu hari nanti atau hanya sekadar kehidupan yang SAMA CORAKNYA hingga ke ujung usia? Gunakan kesempatan hidup di dunia ini sebaik mungkin!!

Kredit untuk YouTube. Hehe.. Banyak betul cabaran mamat ni, tapi apa yang bagusnya dia tempuh segala CABARAN dan terus BERUSAHA tanpa PUTUS ASA untuk mengejar MATLAMAT!! Betul juga apa yang pakcik Bon Jovi katakan dalam lagu ni..

..TOMORROW'S GETTING HARDER MAKE NO MISTAKE

LUCK AIN'T EVEN LUCKY GOTTA MAKE YOUR OWN BREAKS!!

IT'S MY LIFE.. IT'S NOW OR NEVER!!

I AIN'T GONNA LIVE FOR EVER

I JUST WANNA LIVE WHILE I'M ALIVE

IT'S MY LIFE!!

..BETTER STAND TALL WHEN THEY'RE CALLING YOU OUT

DON'T BEND, DON'T BREAK, DON'T BACK DOWN!!

IT'S MY LIFE.. IT'S NOW OR NEVER!!

I AIN'T GONNA LIVE FOR EVER

I JUST WANNA LIVE WHILE I'M ALIVE

IT'S MY LIFE!!

How To Become A Stronger Person?

 
Life Is Not Easy
Hard work makes people lucky, it's the stuff that brings dreams to reality. So start every morning ready to run farther than you did yesterday and fight harder harder than you ever have before.

You Will Fail Sometimes
The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant. You'll be never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always 100% sure doing nothing won't work. So get out there and do something! Either you succeed or you learn a vital lesson.

Right Now, There's A Lot You Don't Know
The day you stop learning is the day you stop living. Embrace new information, think about it and use it to advance yourself.

There May Not Be Tomorrow
Not for everyone. Right now, someone on earth is planning for tomorrow without realizing they're going to die today. So spend your time wisely today and pause long enough to appreciate it.
 
There's A Lot You Can't Control
Wasting your time, talent and emotional energy on things that are beyond your control is a recipe for frustration, misery and stagnation. Invest your energy in the things you can control.


Information Is Not True Knowledge
Knowledge comes from experience. You can discuss a task a hundred times, but these discussions will only give you a philosophical understanding. You must experience a task firsthand to truly know it.

You Can't Success Without Providing Value
Don't waste your time trying to be successful, spend your time creating value. When you're valuable to the world around you, you will be successful.

Someone Else Will Always Have More Than You
Whether it's money, friends or magic beans that you are collecting, there will be always be someone who has more than you. But remember, it's not how many you have, it's how passionate you are about collecting them. It's all about the journey.

You Can't Change The Past
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. You can't change what happened, but you can change how you react to it.

The Only Person Who Can Make You Happy Is You
The root of your happiness comes from your relationship with yourself. Sure external entities can have fleeting effects on your mood, but in the long run nothing matters more than how you feel about who you are on the inside.

There Will Always Be People Who Don't Like You
You can't be everything to everyone. No matter what you do, there will be always be someone who thinks differently. So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. What others think and say about you isn't all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.

You Won't Always Get What You Want
But if you try sometimes you might find you get what you need. Appreciate the things you have right now. Many people aren't lucky.

In Life, You Get What You Put In
If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It really is this simple.

Good Friends Will Come & Go
Most of your school friends won't be a part of your college life. Most of your college friends won't be a part of your 20-something professional life. Most of your 20-something friends won't be there your spouse and you bring your 2nd child into the world. But some friends will stick. And it's these friends, the ones who transcend time with you, who matter.

Doing The Same Exact Thing Everyday Hinders Self Growth
If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting. Growths happens when you change things, when you try new things, when you stretch beyond your comfort zone.

You Will Never Fell 100% Ready For Something New
Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means you won't feel totally comfortable or ready for it.

Sumber : 16 Harsh Truths That Make Us Stronger by Marc & Angel Hack Life